Wondering why I haven't updated this blog in eons? I'm just too busy! And I don't mean to sound idyllic as though we're in constant motion between Charlotte Mason-esque nature walks, family reading time, sports camps, home-schooling co-ops and field-trips, and a myriad of exciting, enrichment opportunities for our boys. I mean my life as mother, wife, teacher, house-keeper is much too much to manage. My baby is perfect and I long to send the boys away for a few hours each day so that I can just love on my third-born miracle; my second born is all imagination and play and I never sit and PLAY WITH HIM, I'm just too busy it seems. I feel as though I am failing everyone for the sake of teaching Caleb. And, once again, don't misinterpret... Caleb's not getting all that much outta me these days either. If Caleb has 3 or 4 times a week with my undivided teaching attention, he's getting more than the rest!
And yet... and yet Caleb learns so easily. Every time we sit down with our hooked on phonics workbook and readers, he just naturally comprehends what I'm explaining and proceeds to read. We don't really do math, I just talk aloud as we naturally do life in mathematical situations like cutting apples, counting his change, telling time, climbing stairs. The other day I was counting out the kids' vitamins and there is one type that Caleb gets four of and his brother gets two of another brand that he likes the taste of better. Caleb asked, "mom, why don't you give me two of mine and one of his?" He just gets things. All the time.
Brody on the other hand just turned three last week and when I ask him about his shapes and colors he either responds, "I don't know, you tell me.." or he gives me a ridiculous answer and laughs like a mad animal! I know I need to spend more one on one time with him, that is my main focus now, but I'm trying to be okay with his dirty-little-critter ways. It's as though God made him with the marvelous purpose of BEING IN THE DIRT! he's always been at home in a mud puddle with a bit of blood or drool seeping out of some place on his precious little body. If I want him to learn anything I think I outta take it to the dirt. Maybe draw shapes in the sand, build sand castles and count the buckets full of dirt, draw our numbers in the garden bed while wiggling our toes amidst the worms.
Baby is just happy to be playing, nursing and sleeping. I try to read to him like I did his brothers, but he is much happier to be eating the books! He reminds me so much of Caleb... only more of a people magnet like Brody.
So, I'm learning my kids. Busy busy learning them. I wish I had some help in making everything come together better. I just feel unable to make it all happen.. to meet everyone's needs. I wish we had the money for a private school education.
I wish I knew the mind of Christ in all of this.